An Appleton family had a tough decision to make last Friday after the fatal accident involving a wrong way driver. Nick and Danielle Eckes were scheduled to get married the following day, and Nick’s grandmother, mother, father and sister were all in one of the vehicles involved. His grandmother, 84 year old Ila Schabow, and mother 56 year old Lynn Eckes both died in the accident, and his father, 58 year old Kenneth Eckes, and sister, 32 year old Kristen Eckes were hospitalized while on their way to the wedding. The couple decided to continue with the ceremony to show that, in their officiant Rev. Dan Thews’ words, “love is bigger than death and death doesn’t win, life goes on.” The driver of the wrong-way vehicle, Todd J. Beyer, 38, of Green Bay also died.